Shoulds are lil bastards that hide in plain sight and hijack your life.

Maybe you’re staying in a job or a marriage you know isn’t right for you. Maybe you really want to buy an RV and live on the road (but everyone around you thinks you’re cuckoo!) Perhaps you are 39 years old, excited to get a tattoo on your wrist and terrified of what your mom will think. (Ahem..ME 🙋‍♀️.)

Those are a few examples of giving up power and choice. We think we should keep doing XYZ thing so we don’t rock the boat, upset anyone, fail, screw up the kids….the excuse list goes on for miles.

Jill’s story of becoming a Shoulding Survivor will inspire you to F your shoulds, free your SELF and discover who you were born to be.

Creating sustainable positive change takes more than what our culture tells us it should.

In this keynote, Jill brings humor and hammers to bust your audiences through the fleeting first few weeks of well-intentioned change to up-leveling in life’s game of whack-a-mole.

Psssst…We decide whether to bring a huge-ass sledgehammer or a shitty tack-hammer to the battle. Jill will show you how to choose better tools.

How often do you try and ‘figure it out’ when it comes to big life choices? NEWSFLASH! Figuring it out is for logistics and math, not life.

For example, choosing a career or making a job change involves more than just $, hours and ladders.

What if we tuned our brains and bodies to work together and make choices with feels as part of the equation? Jill talks about ‘Feeling It Out vs. Figuring It Out’ and when to tell our brains to fuck off.